leaving my partner of 11 years

Tarnibel
Sounds to me as if you were not over the death of your DH when you started a new relationship. Take advice on your financial situation because without a partner's input you will have to manage on your own.
Best wishes.

Please listen to Harrigran's words of wisdom.

That must have been a very hard decision, Tarnibel. You should visit your nearest Citizens' Advice Bureau where you will receive advice on your rights, on pensions, on benefits and on housing - whatever you need. Is this a mutual decision? And do you have children and any other living relatives who will give you moral support?

CAB will guide you and each step will lead to the next. Making the decision is the hardest bit.
Be sure to get the CAB advice so you get everything you are entitled to. Also, with regard to dividing assets you should perhaps see a solicitor. Again, CAB will guide you.

I do have children two daughters and a son. They are in full support for me and our my best friends.

i will keep you informed of how things progress. Thank you all for your advice which i have taken on board.

Do come back and keep us up to date Tarnibel some excellent advice good luck with all you need to do. Its good you have your childrens support.

You could also talk to Age UK. Their local Information and Advice Service should be able to help you - especially over problems of housing and entitlement to benefits.

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So sorry that this relationship has not worked out for you; I hope that CAB can give you the right advice about your housing and financial needs and how they might be met. Good luck.