I wouldn't call it stalking Grannylu, though if it goes on when you have told him you are just not interested then you should report it. At the moment my SIL's friend's father who unfortunately has my number has text me nearly every day/night for the last two weeks. I wouldn't call it stalking but he is very annoying. I have never let him think I would be interested in him. I normally ignore his messages, at the beginning I replied after a few nights that I don't reply to messages at night, so he still kept texting me because he really is an idiot and thought it was okay to still send a text. I then replied that his messages woke me up and not to send anymore. I still have had a couple of messages at night and the rest were late afternoon or mornings. At the end of last week I said let me set you up on online dating, he seemed happy with that, I got some details and I whipped up a profile, guessing his personality (boring and doesn't listen with the worst voice I have ever heard) because I don't really know him. Then he wanted me to go through it with him, he isn't the most computer literate person and I told him his son could help him. I had a couple of phone calls for help and then peace, no messages for the last few days. Then this morning he sent me a text, could I change his profile. [thiangry]
It's not flattering to have someone who is a pest sending messages, wanting to come to my house. I have male friends who are just friends, just because we are single doesn't mean we have to be interested romantically. [thiconfused] I dont care if his son is SIL's friend he will be told to fuck off.