Clumsily expressed, I know, but I can't think of putting it better.
My OH and I have been married for almost 40 years, and have children, and, most of the time everything's fine.
Sometimes though, I get extremely angry with him - generally his thoughtlessness. I feel as though I do a lot of 'caring' things for him. Just little stuff, like seeing a book he might like in the library and getting it for him, or printing off some photo's of him and his cousin that I knew he would like.and, of course cooking. I don't mind doing all the cooking, it's just the thinking about what we're going to eat that I get bored with. If he cooks, it's a real song and dance, if you know what I mean.
Anyway, he's loving in a being generally affectionate way. But it would never cross his mind to actually DO something thoughtful like I do for him. He can't even be arsed to work out how to make a cappuchinno for me in our nespresso machine, so, if I want a coffee, I make it myself.
As I said, usually all's fine, and I just think, that's the way it is. But every now and again, I just feel like moving out. I work out the whole scenario of what I'm taking, and where I'll go. The next day, things gradually return to normal. He say's 'come on, lat's make up, tell me you love me', in a loving way, and everything's OK again (ish).
Is this normal? or is it a sign that I should cut and run?
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