There seem to be a lot of problems with family members.
A poor lady posted a question in connection with her deteriorated relationship with her son and DIL which was very sad, and then deleted the post after I replied. If she reads this I would like to apologise to her because I replied very bluntly and it was out of order. I am really sorry as I am sure my reply was upsetting, probably not true, and even if there was some truth in it, it could have been worded more tactfully.
There seem to be a lot of problems with family members. I have two sisters who don't speak to each other. The one who started the rift just says she has nothing in common with the other one, that she is not someone she would choose as a friend, and doesn't see why she should bother with her just because they happen to be related. The other sister is really upset about the situation and can't understand what she has done wrong - she hasn't done anything wrong, she is a nice person with lors of friends but not the other sister's type.
My husband has never kept in touch with his brother, nothing awful happened, they are just two different people with only their parents in common.
Do you think that we should struggle to stay close to our families, especially our children, if it seems obvious that they have no time or respect for us?
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