Husband and porn

I've asked him. He says it's all my fault.

There's stuff about escorts and massages, rent boys, far beyond what I would call 'normal' porn. It's at all hours of the day and night. He's also looked up sex contacts in Lanzarote and hotels after telling me we couldn't afford a holiday it looks like he getting one planned out there. He's 'talking' to some girl on a sex blog.
harrigran he's so computer illiterate I don't think he knows how to delete history. He only ever uses google and outlook emails.

I have pm'd you. x

How very distressing for you. I am thinking of you.x

If he hasn't deleted his surfing history he clearly thinks there is nothing wrong in looking at porn so will probably not be phased when you mention it.

just take time to process this find. No doubt he will be horrified when you tell him what you have found. It may feel like the end of the world but its not, it may not be good but dont panic. We are all here for you.

i know you are shocked but it is not as bad as it could be. There is no child porn so thats good. He is only looking and remember it is so easy to find this stuff on the net, he may just have had a little peek but then another and another then it became a habit. Dont say a word until you can talk to him about it calmly.

I'm sorry this had happened. I think you should ask your husband about it.Bring it out into the open. It is not uncommon not that I am condoning it.Hugs x

loopy take a deep breath