Thank you all. She has been through so much hurt , was in a loving, happy family, her mother - my lovely daughter- left the family home when the little one was ten, a month later their father was thought to have cancer , five months before the all clear. My daughter had developed a mental illness, became a secret drinker then an alcholic. We live in a small market town where everything is known and my daughter gets highs and lows which sure thing is repeated in school. So my little one wants to get into university , wants to be with her siblings and wants to leave this town. They did call in recently with a suggestion - granny when we have all left here will you move to our university town so we will still be near you ! Gulp.
To all grannies and mothers with children waiting for the results , I wish success for all and thank you all x