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what do you row/argue about the most?

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TriciaF Wed 30-Aug-17 15:59:26

We had a big shouting match today, and TG managed to make peace at the end. But what it boiled down to was so trivial.
I had just come back from some shopping and various other errands, and OH said "Did you do so-and-so?" And of course I'd forgotten.
So counterattack - "you never said to do that". etc his riposte "you just don't listen!"
Truth to tell my short-term memory is getting worse, and I'm a bit deaf. But so is he, so it goes on.
We finally agreed that everything 'to do' has to be written down from now on, but will we forget to do that?

M0nica Thu 31-Aug-17 16:04:14

willa45 I could have written your post! In my case I work on the basis that we have the lovely house we have because of all DH's work, and as someone with 10 left thumbs, if my contribution to our projects is the sweeping and tidying up then that is a fair trade off.

narrowboatnan Thu 31-Aug-17 19:51:03

Know what, TriciaF? I could have written that very same post! That's Captain Narrowboat bad me to a T! Glad it's not just me then!