Support for Grans cut-out of AC&GC lives

Morning Girls

Well all back to normal, almost.

So nice to hear how you enjoyed your Son's stay Smileless and I'm sure he enjoyed his time with you all, bet he didn't want to go back and maybe, in a few months time, perhaps he will return for good!

Yes it's very hard when someone visits our estranged ones. My estD's meeting with her uncle didn't aspire, she didn't turn up, left him waiting in London, coupled with the fact he missed my Xmas family gathering, his sister phoned him whilst at mine and got the news. I have always held my b.i.l [prev.] in high esteem, but a little chink has gone, owing to the fact he's meetings with my estD are kept from me, I get the news through my ND, if it was me meeting his Son or D, I would keep him informed. He did have a time when his Son fell out with him, for quite a few months, if not a year, owing to the disapproval of his girlfriend, now wife [she is younger than my ND

My ND will try and get a little more info from her uncle, but doesn't want it to appear too wanting [for want of a better word] So yes, I like to hear a little news on them S, bitter sweet!

I said to my ND, 'I don't know why he is not open about his meetings, as we only want to know a little bit of info on them, we are not doing anything with it, just to know. Anyway this is the third time she/they have stood him up, so he hasn't seen them for almost the same time as us now!

Terrible news on Anniebach's dear daughter!

Thanks starlady we had great time at dance with good friends,
Happy new year to you and happiness and peace of mind to us all.

I'm a little late, but hope everyone had a Happy New Year!

Hi smilless decos still up here as got fiends coming for supper Saturday so will get them down Sunday.

Must been sad say goodbye?

I went back acquacsie today so that's "normal"

I always kinds hope that your sons meeting will lead to reconciliation ?It's so crazy.

On bright. One we booked another holiday with one of our social clubs week on i or wight ?Break from from driving for us.

Been feeling bit down mornings but hope that's going wear off try keep positive.

The decorations are down and DS is back in Aus. so life is going back to normal, what ever that is.

His stay all be it wonderful, brought home to the 3 of us how difficult it is for GP's CO of their GC's lives when their other child(ren) is going to spend time with them. I did wonder if it would have made it easier for us all, if we'd asked questions about them but I know it would only hurt us to have those questions answered, to know a little about them IMO is worse than knowing nothing at all.

Our eldest will be 6 in a few days time. DS said nothing at all to me about his visits but did say a few things to Mr. S. One being that on a couple of occasions there was an awkward moment when talk turned to parents and GP's. He didn't give any details but said the conversation quickly went in another direction.

I thought how foolish our ES was being. If he's so sure that he's done the right thing, why not deal with it? Why not tell his 6 year old that they don't want to see us and because of that, him and his brother don't see us, their GP's. That when he's older he'll tell him lies in more detail, what happened.

We're gradually disappearing under a mountain of paperwork as we get close to closing the sale on our villa in Florida. I'm sure it wasn't this complicated when we were buying it. Maybe I should tell Mr. S. I've changed my mind and want to keep it after all.

We had great night out with friends best night since my op.
Thanks rhinestone lucklylegs and everyone peace of mind and good health for 2018 to us all.

Smilless so pleased you been having great time with your son and yes will be tough say goodbye?.

Yoga thank you for ironing pile! You too celeb.

HNY to all in here. May 2018 bring us peace and resolution with kindness.

Health and much happiness and peace from me in Florida.

Hello everyone, a very happy new year to you all, I hope 2018 brings you all good health and much happiness, and lots of .

Happy New Year to All.
Smileless glad you had this time with your son, that he saw his brother, he is going through a difficult time and you were there for him and I hope he goes back happier tgan when he came.?
Yogagirl, Sparkly Gran, Celeb and all friends on here?

[tchgrin[ HAPPY NEW YEAR ALL

No you didn't put your foot in it Celebgran

Have come on to wish all of you lovely ladies a very Happy New Year.

I did a pile of ironing yesterday; if I'd known how much you seem to enjoy it Sparkly I'd have saved it for you.

DS is out with his mates this evening and we have our girls coming round for a meal and no doubt loads of laughter. One thing's for certain, it wont be a quiet night in.

The champers is chilling and we'll be able to watch the fire works from our roof terrace.

So, A Very Happy New Year to you all and I'll post again, next year xx

Only 2 days until he returns to Aus.. It's been a wonderful Christmas but not without a few delicate moments and I know my heart will break when he leaves.

Me too sparklygran Plenty of ironing here!

Sorry yogagirl didn't mean put my foot in it.

Happy new year to us all we off to party!
Had hair blo dried and been to other club for lunchtime drink!
????for us all sparklygran enjoy your treats and yogagirl enjoy boogie I hope do little! Smilelss hope u having fun too u been quiet! X

Sparklygran I would like to give you a gift, to sooth you & take your mind off things....my ironing pile

I have a class this morning, then out with my two girlfriends for a meal and a boogie, to see the New Year in

To answer your question on the other thread Celebgran re the over-the-top present, the answer is yes unfortunately . I didn't answer on that thread as I didn't want to detract from OP, also regretted posting it in the end.

That's good sparklygran helps keep busy we out with good friends at local club live duo we really like???
Your plans sound good!
What the rest of us up.to?

celebgran I knew what you meant thank you.

Anyone partying for NY?

Me, I have a new boxed set, a bottle of something nice and some Waitrose goodies to settle down with for NY eve.

Some cousins might pop in, daytime NYD. They are kind and lovely.

Today I have been ironing since 6pm, getting the pile down. Its soothing and I feel its taken my mind off estrangement.

Meant you had tears damn predictive text!

Aagh ?Sparklygran sorry I had tears.

Thankfully I didn't even when sent pic of ed and youngest Granddaughter beyond sad never seen her, worried for ed but no tears,

Mind you we were surrounded with love and warmth with dear sons family so that helped!

Onwards and positive sparklygran and all of us.

Good morning everyone and I have got through another Christmas day whew, without seeing or hearing from estDS and DGC. A few moments of tears, one when watching Call The Midwife on Christmas Day.

Onward and upward. Well trying to.

Christmas sadness Celebgran on grandparenting

Sorry meant thread that grannyactivist said good news?

What threat was that on starlady and yogagirl ?Please

Glad that everyone seems to have enjoyed Xmas and that GA got that wonderful message! I always think the day will come when many of these eac will miss their parents or decide they made a mistake, as they see their own kids getting older and find they have some conflicts, etc. Maybe that's what's happening with GA's dd.

Or not. And, of course, I know it doesn't happen in every case.

Haven't been on the other thread yet Yogagirl but what wonderful news for Grannyactivist; that bought a few tears to my eyes, just imagining how lovely that must have been for her.

Looks like everyone's managed to enjoy their Christmas. It must have been lovely spending the day with your little GD.

We had such a fabulous day with DS. He sent a pic to a friend in Aus. of our Christmas table just before we ate so they'd know how we Brits do Christmas.

So many cuddles, I wish I could bottle them. To feel his strong arms around me and his love is simply priceless. We had the best Christmas we've had for 5 years.

So glad you enjoyed your time with your DS Celeb. Now we have to get ourselves ready for the New Year celebrations; let's hope it's a good one for us all.

No I didn't see that yogagirl that's so marvelllous! So pleased for grannyactiviSt.

Thanks it's made us feel so good being loved and cherished!

Glad yours went well too bet little one was excited.
My great nephew got huge car bless him!
Little great niece had skateboard and a tablet I think from photos.

I haven't hosted Xmas for 5 years either! My sons partner has really spoilt me not cooked Xmas dinner for so long they all came here when they lived in London 5 years ago now they 185 miles away they invite us to go stay.
The first yesrmshe met my son she did us Xmas dinner how kind was that.

Happy new year all of us. Let's hope it will bring joy to us all in some way.

Just seen my lovely gp who was so kind and helpful different advice to other one. She puts so much thought into it,
She is going take up yoga yogagirl!