Daughters with children vs daughters without

I have 2 DD who have 3 Ds between them I am close to all of them, all be it youngest lives in Australia with 2 of my GDS.Our relationship didn't change after children we have always been close.

I have four sons , we are very close and I see them all at least twice a week (separately) . 2 have no children- 2 have . I would say that I am also close to my DILs and have always made a huge effort to get on with any girls that my sons have brought home . I have become much closer to the youngest since he had his first child this year , he is in awe of me being able to cope with 4 children now he has his own !

I have two daughters who after career time each had a baby within 6 weeks. So I was a Gran and still a mother to two new mothers and I think both felt I gave more time and attention to the other. I was exhausted with travelling some way to see them both, stay overnight and push prams.

Thats a long time ago and I get on well with both of them but we don't have daily contact. We always had seperate lives, different interests and I love to see them but would not like both calling twice a week. I haven't got the time.

Marnie, I am sure you were a lovely mother. Relationships are funny things. I never see my daughter but am quite close to my son. As a parent, you can only have so much influence

I have two daughters, the younger has 2 children and the older daughter doesn't. I am a bit sad that my grandchildren dont have cousins but have accepted now.
She lives abroad so i see my younger daughter more frequently, because we go over once a week to help with childcare. Otherwise suspect weeks might go by. My neighbours daughter comes in every day, and i think that would be too much, never satisfied are we?