Just that really. I have tried for so many years to like her and I have managed to establish what I suppose you could call a polite working relationship so I don't know that she knows how I feel - I do the latter for the sake of my elderly father who I love dearly.
They have been married for almost thirty years so I appreciate it is a long time to hold a grudge. But she has done and said some awful things to me and the rest of my family and while some years have passed since the worst of it, forgiving and forgetting does not seem to be possible. Perhaps I am not a very nice person but I do not trust her an inch (I have good reason) and I hate that even after three decades my father's family seems to count for nothing while her own four children (and their children/grandchildren) are everything. I am not in doubt about my father's feelings for us but I have seen too often how she manipulates him and how we are left out of many things that should be family occasions, even though we live fairly locally. She's almost 80, in good health, and I know I should be the bigger person here but nothing changes and so the resentment never fades.
Prayer ban at Katharine Birbalsingh’s school is lawful, High Court rules .