I have been with my significant other for nearly a year. We don't live together but spend most weekends together.
A couple of times we have been to my family events & also taken my grandson out (aged 5).
It is clear that my daughter is trying to limit the contact they (her, son in law, grandson) have with my chap.
She had told me she doesn't like him although couldn't really say why. I asked if he had done or said anything, because I would want to know, but she said he hadn't.
My grandson has made a few cruel remarks which have obviously come from his parents & this makes me very sad.
Does it matter whether they like him? It means that I won't be able to look forward to family days / holidays together, which we did with my ex-husband (not my daughter's father). Everyone got on well then & it's so different now.
My chap is not keen on my son in law but that's mainly because SIL has been quite rude & dismissive (or ignored him) when we have been together.
The situation is making me quite anxious as we have a number of events coming up which we and they will be attending.
Should I just concentrate on my own relationship & not worry about my daughter's opinions?
People eating and drinking on the go
What Would You Do in this Position?