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ooonana Wed 13-Dec-17 18:56:05

My live apart then partner of 16 years told me to listen to a radio programme which he said explained how he was feeling.
It was about toxic dysfunctional relationships. I felt insulted, and very hurt. It was then followed by an even more toxic email from him outlining all my faults. Am I wrong to have cancelled all holidays, outings and times out with him?
He is now sorry, trying to see me, mend fences etc having realised the fall out of his actions. In the past after previous tiffs I have always brought us together again.
I am refusing to see him for three months am I right or wrong please.

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WilmaKnickersfit Sun 24-Dec-17 16:34:01

Merry Christmas to you too ooonana and wish you all the best for 2018. ?????

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FarNorth Sun 24-Dec-17 18:13:26

Wow, oonana.
If all your friends have said that it sounds like you're having a lucky escape, right enough!

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FarNorth Sun 24-Dec-17 18:16:29

Oops, posted too soon.

Meant to say, if he was a nice guy while you were being secretly toxic, unknown to your friends, they'd still think he was a nice guy and it was a shame you'd quarrelled.

Have a great Xmas with your family. tchsmile

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