Last evening DH and I were at our local sports club after a day out at a sporting event which our son had come with us as his wife and our DGD were meeting up with her friend and her daughter. DIL and DGD and these friends turned up about an hour later. They'd had a drink but not drunk. I had already spoken to all of them we had a laugh and i then went to sit with my mate.
After my friend and DILs mates left. DIL started to have a go saying she felt invisible as my friend didn't say bye to her. She then started to say DGD had told her a few years ago I'd asked if they were mean to GD or if they ever argued in front of her. I have never questioned GD about anything, she is 10. (She was supposed to have been 6 when saying these things). When I denied saying these things she then started to ask if GD was telling lies. This was all in front of GD. DS was trying to calm the situation down. In the end DH told her that we didn't deserve this shit and we left.
I always thought I was a good MIL, gave her a home, help with children, lent money etc. She had no family as her mum is in a care home and she was fostered all her life. I treated her as though she was my second daughter. She also kept saying no one cares about her when I said I care she kept saying no you only care about DS and DGC.
I'm devistated that she would think I would call my GD a liar in front of her. But it wouldn't have mattered as DIL didn't believe or want to believe me.
DIL has been on antidepressants for a number of years she does have anxiety problems.
I'm sorry if this is a rambling post but wanted to get everything down. DH is saying I'm not to contact them first as she as hurt me so much that she thinks so little of me.
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