I had OCD after the birth of my first child, no therapy in those days so just had to battle through. It went in the end. I think it was something to do with a complete change of identity and in the relationship with my OH. A way of trying to get some control over my life which all of a sudden felt totally out of my control. No one can see these things coming and its no ones fault. I think the fact that your ES is talking, whilst obviously painful to his wife, is actually a good sign and he is also getting the help he needs. The upsetting things he is saying will be through the lens of a mind that temporarily is not seeing things straight. Hang on in there and you will all get through this. Birth of a first child however much planned for, wanted and utterly wonderful, can also be unexpectedly traumatic.
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