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Jette Fri 27-Jul-18 16:22:43

How would you take it if a man you were with gently caressed your face?

Diana54 Sat 28-Jul-18 11:26:14

Stroking a strangers face is really creepy whatever the intentions are I am having visions of Count Dracula caressing the face of one of his victims.
In an intimate situation it's perfectly OK otherwise really weird

Margs Sat 28-Jul-18 11:34:14

If the man was not known terribly well by moi then I'd be tempted to give him the Mrs Thatcher Handbagging Treatment.

If he was my husband (or the ex) he'd definitely be getting the Mrs Thatcher Handbagging Treatment!!!

sandelf Sat 28-Jul-18 11:36:12

Reminds me of creep Trump - see how well he dominates with what look like 'friendly' 'helpful' touching, guiding etc. Absolute no no. Friends husband tried a bit of this. Never got within yards of him ever again.

Mary59nana Sat 28-Jul-18 11:43:37

You lovely ladies make me smile everyday now I’m laughing ...

David1968 Sat 28-Jul-18 11:53:31

I'm with sandelf. This appears to be inappropriate behaviour. (Was it in a workplace?) A clearer context is needed from the OP.

dragonfly46 Sat 28-Jul-18 12:00:52

A definite no no - I am very protective of my personal space. I even hate all this kissing that acquaintances think is acceptable!

Nanny41 Sat 28-Jul-18 12:03:38

Awkward I would say,if you dont really know the person.

GabriellaG Sat 28-Jul-18 12:34:12

Wind up? grin

GabriellaG Sat 28-Jul-18 12:37:48

You don't know where his hand has been, anyway, the OP saying that maybe he wanted to touch her soft skin, says it all about her opinion of herself.
I wouldn't give the question any more credence.

sarahellenwhitney Sat 28-Jul-18 13:37:01

Just that nothing else ?No conversation ?Weird.

holdingontometeeth Sat 28-Jul-18 13:49:04

Was he envious of your beard?

BlueBelle Sat 28-Jul-18 14:04:37

I think this is a wind up too Gabriella

Noname Sat 28-Jul-18 14:20:04

This is a pointless post as no detail is given nor has the OP come back to enlighten us! Bored now ?

Nannyme Sat 28-Jul-18 16:19:33

All the responses are hillarious, but ..........

MawBroon Sat 28-Jul-18 16:21:10

Enough.
This is nonsense.

oldbatty Sat 28-Jul-18 16:21:34

I do it to my son when Ive been on the Pinot....is that the sort of thing you mean?

grannytotwins Sat 28-Jul-18 16:24:39

A handsome,well-known television actor stroked my cheek when I met him recently. I was secretly thrilled. My husband was amused.

Jette Sat 28-Jul-18 17:03:30

I am genuinely interested in your opinions but I don't know why you attack me about soft skin.I was being humorous as I am quite old.I have known this person for a long time but not as a friend

Jalima1108 Sat 28-Jul-18 17:12:28

Is he young, grannyoftwins?

BlueBelle Sat 28-Jul-18 17:12:35

I don’t think anyone was attacking you Jette but it is a very odd post because no one on here knows you, knows the man, knows the relationship, or the friendship or the professional contact or even the situation so really have so
Title to react to
You seem as if you enjoyed the encounter so I d say good luck You also say you haven’t seen him since but we have no knowledge whether this encounter happened last week last year or last decade
Hopefully he facncies you you fancy him and all will be well with the world

Diana54 Sat 28-Jul-18 18:01:06

Jette
Do you interpret the cheek stroking as "childlike" by an old friend, if so there is no harm

wot Sat 28-Jul-18 18:20:10

My dentist patted me on the head and I found it affectionate. I didn't mind at all, being glad the dental work was over.

MawBroon Sat 28-Jul-18 19:24:34

Jette what did you mean by “you were with”?
Are you happy with that sort of physical contact?

caocao Sun 29-Jul-18 10:20:49

Maybe his profession is male escort and he's luring Jette into buying "extras!"

M0nica Sun 29-Jul-18 11:04:06

Jette, if you are quite old, he could have been patronising you rather like people who when you get to a certain age keep using the phrase bless in a condescending way