granddaughter sleeping arrangements.

JackyB
(your last sentence!)

All these threads about unmarried people sleeping together have always puzzled me. OK - I only have sons, but I am pretty sure they are responsible, but my main point is, I only find out the girls were here overnight when they creep out in the mornings.

As for DS2's girlfriend staying overnight (because she lives a bit further away) and staying in the same room - that was fine by me. Their daughter was with them in the same room, too.

I think my standards have been eroded by watching too many soaps where this would be a normal occurrence! Perhaps that's what bewildered should do! Broaden her horizons

Notice that bewildered hasn't come back!

trisher

Another suspect subject?
Wondering why I ever bother reading all these ‘suspect’ posts it’s seems such a waste of everyone’s time .

I’m off ?

When I first read this I thought the granddaughter was sleeping with the daughter's boy friend. Now that is a bit much!

A grown woman of 21 ? What's the problem? Move on.

Agreed, Bluebelle Anno

If her parents are ok with the situation, it's really not your problem to worry about.

I think so too Annodomini

That OP is a try-on!

my daughter was engaged at 18 ,we gave them the keys to a flat we owned as we didn't really want then next door to her 8 year old brother.The biggest surprise we had was my MIL who said we were being sensible as she needed to "try before you buy" with him.They were engaged for 2 years and broke up,but it was for the best as he had an alcohol problem that she might not have discovered if they hadn't lived together for a while .

Not forgetting the plimsolls from Shoe Zone to make a quick getaway.

Chewbacca

A chastity belt? I will try to find a link, OP.

A bolster would do the same, Chewbacca and without the work of cutting to size. It would have the added virtue of being the traditional answer of "bundling" to the age-old problem of letting young people do some controlled courting but keeping them apart.

But they would somehow find a way round any obstacle, as they have since Adam and Eve made their daughter's boyfriend sleep in a separate cave.

I don't know where you would get a bolster these days, anyway.

I shouldn’t think she has any virtue left ????

To bring peace of mind; I'd construct a wooden divider, approximately the length of the bed, and place that right down the middle. That way the young couple can continue to sleep together but your mind will be at rest that your granddaughters virtue will not be compromised. If you pm me, I'll send you the cardboard template I use for all young visitors to my house who aren't married but want to sleep together.

If the original poster really is bewildered by the situation of her responsible 21-yr-old granddaughter sleeping with her boyfriend when he visits, he/she must have been living in a sound-proof glass case for the last sixty or so years.,

So !!! What’s the problem I was married by then and that was in the 60 s so not just a modern day action A very puritanical point of view

ContraryMary

I think you should go over there and play merry hell, tell them it would never have been allowed in your day.

As long as they wear their onesies I don’t see a problem?

Sounds totally normal to me.

Another bored saddo.

As long as her aprents are OK with this it is none of anyone else's business.It is their house rules not yours.
However it it was in your home your rules would apply.