The impression I get is there is an Adult who was never close to her mother, for whatever reason, was obviously effected by it as she mentioned it alot, who has felt like an outcast, maybe blamed her mother for that, her mom feels she isnt to blame and has asked her mother to leave her alone, for whatever reason.
Punk doesn't want to fix her relationship with her daughter who she was never close to and cant/won't forgive her.
Maybe the Daughter needed space for her mental health. Maybe she needed time and space to recover, maybe she needed therapy.
Airing things on Facebook isn't the way to go, speaking from experience.
It can also be seen as bullying and police can get involved if names have been mentioned.
We don't want them to go into care - grandchildren
Is she overcharging me? - cleaner
11-year-olds don't need a prom - AIBU?