Sorry to hear of your loss. It must be difficult coping on your own for the first time, without this nastiness !! You have a right to see your own parents ...no one can stop you. If you feel strong enough, just turn up and see if they are welcoming or have been brain washed by this awful 'sister'...but someone on here is absolutely right !!! You MUST report your concerns to the Office of the Public Guardian as that sister has control of the Power of Attorney ......and do you know if she has been appointed Executor of your parents' Wills ? This is another concern ....if so, SHE will be responsible for administering their estate when they die ...not acceptable in the circumstances. If you have a copy of their Wills, have a look and consult a Solicitor with your concerns. It is illegal not to adhere to the wishes of the deceased .......so please, if you can, check ! ...it is not so much a matter of inheritance (be it monetary or simply possessions you would like, or may have been left, but it is illegal not to obey the rules (and check if youhave been named in any Wills_......this happened to my husband .....the executor was his brother, and he and his three sisters decided to ignore his late mother's wishes and cut him out (nothing monetary, only some photos he would have liked)..BECAUSE his mother did not name each 'child' individually ............you will not need more nastiness when your parents die (if, even, you are told !) If you can speak to your parents without anyone else knowing, please do. ALSO no one can stop you going to a funeral ..... good luck