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Dating younger man

(36 Posts)
sodapop Wed 09-Jan-19 17:35:52

I agree with luckygirl don't over think this, enjoy your relationship and have fun.

Liz46 Wed 09-Jan-19 17:29:56

My husband is 7 years younger than I am. We have been married for over 25 years now and it doesn't seem to be a problem. I know I look older than he does but he still loves me!

Buffybee Wed 09-Jan-19 17:18:02

I can't see any particular problems relating to the age difference and you obviously both like each other and have no ties.
If you're both happy, go for it.

Vonners Wed 09-Jan-19 17:15:15

I have a work colleague dating a younger man, not sure of exact age, early 60's, he's apparently 14 years younger. She seems very happy, seems to do the same sort of things as you. I think its keeping her young.
Personally I can't imagine dating someone younger than myself, and I can't put my finger on why as I feel age shouldn't matter, its more outlook on life and how compatible you feel.
None of us knows what the future holds, I would say just enjoy yourselves, at the same time keep your own friends just in case.

B9exchange Wed 09-Jan-19 17:14:46

Go with your gut instinct. If you feel this man would enrich your life, if you can't think of him without inwardly smiling, if he makes you laugh and you wake up happy, then see where it takes you, the age difference means nothing! smile

Luckygirl Wed 09-Jan-19 17:10:07

Sounds lovely - just enjoy and do not allow your mind to find problems where there are none, or to concern yourself with the opinions of others. You are taking it slowly and enjoying each others company - what's not to like, as they say!

I have friends where the age gap is very similar - they are very happy.

There is little enough love and happiness around - grab it while you can!

PECS Wed 09-Jan-19 16:56:53

Meant to add..it is not always about age!

PECS Wed 09-Jan-19 16:56:10

If both are happy go with it. Only you can judge if the friendship feels equal. If one of you is looking for love and romance and the other is looking for a good friend and companion it may not work!

Cherrytree59 Wed 09-Jan-19 16:51:36

Sorry too many 'we have'
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Cherrytree59 Wed 09-Jan-19 16:50:26

Irene Sounds like you are both taking it slowly and having a lovely time.
Enjoy.

My husband is 8 years older we sort of meet somewhere in the middle.

We know 2 couples who have an age gap.
We have we have been friends with both couples for years.

1st couple - the husband is 16 years younger.
No children
(Ruby wedding in May)

2nd couple the husband is 49yrs old and his wife will be 69 in April.
Wife has one son and last year they became great grandparents!

Both couples have very happy marriages.

IreneAdler Wed 09-Jan-19 16:15:39

I am a 60 year old widow and have just started dating a 48 year old widower.

Early stages yet, just going around to each other’s houses at weekends and evenings for a cup of tea and chat and meal at home, and days out to national trust or English heritage properties.

Neither of us has children and we are both widowed.

He is a care worker, so low paid, but has own home and deferred pension from previous job.

Am I setting myself up for a fall by dating a man twelve years younger than myself?