My first post and I'm hoping for some guidance on how to handle this.
Over last few months my husband has lost over £1000 playing online blackjack. Never seemed interested in gambling before.
He never tells me he's had a session online, I always find out by our bank app which I check every day. If I confront him he gets sheepish and says he's embarrassed, but then angry saying it's no big deal, lots of people do it.
He still works so not so much the money side of it although we are saving and that amount is such a waste, but the secrecy, refusal to acknowledge his actions, and his anger is worrying me.
I really would appreciate some help getting this into perspective. Is it a bit of fun or is there a problem.
Silent treatment - son
Caught in the act - neighbours
How to say it - 'no'