Thank you for all the messages. I see I am not alone. Actually feeling a bit better and am up and dressed. Miraculously he has perked up as well. Like many have advised I will have a chat with him when I feel up to it. It reminds me of when I was in hospital with pneumonia and very ill he used to turn up at visiting time and spend the whole time moaning about what a lot he had to do because I was ill.
He is very good in many ways it is just the silent sulking I find so trying.
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