It is so hard when you have opened your hearts and home to your GD and she appears to be rejecting everything and you.
Without knowing the background, its likely that she has a degree of attachment disorder and fundamentally finds it difficult to trust, love and maintain healthy relationships having had a break down in primary care relationships previously.
Add to that the turmoil of adolescence with the need to grow as an independent adult, and you have a perfect recipe for extremely challenging times. Part of the difficulty in attaching is the constant need to test. If I do this will they still love me?
You have managed all of this brilliantly. Carry on telling her that you love her. Explain to your husband that she doesn't mean this personally and that she probably believes deep down that she is unlovable and that she will ultimately be rejected. She doesn't 'get 'unconditional love. Yet.
Wishing you all the luck in the world
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