Please, I need some advice.
I'm 51 and have been with my partner for nearly 19 years. We have no children together, but have two each.
From day one, he has been a liar.
These are just some of the things he's said that aren't true.
-a photo of a little baby girl in his belongings was his daughter that died.
- he was divorced when I met him.
- his ex wife took all his money
- he owned businesses involving long haul trucks
- hundreds of lies about stupid everyday things like eating something out of the fridge
- taking money from my daughters account
- taking random things from work
- anything a person can lie about, he's done it.
I have stood by him all this time, because I thought I was enough to make him change.
I nursed his mother until she passed away, I supported him through a serious accident at work, I supported him when his father died, I have been there from day one doing nothing but loving and supporting him. And love him I did...I fell crazily in love and it has remained steadfast all these years.
His lies have become even more extreme in the last 12 months.
He worked away from home for three months and during that time, he rang and told me his son had died, and he needed money.
I instantly rang his sister and she rang his son, who was perfectly ok.
He is a member of the local rescue group, and not a week goes by where he isn't off "rescuing" people.
So many lies, and none of them seem to serve a purpose. His family says he has been like this all his life.
I don't for a second believe he is cheating on me, there is absolutely no evidence of that at all.
He is such a good liar that he made me question my own mind and made me feel guilty for doubting him.
Last week I finally, finally had enough, and made him leave.
Apart from the lying, he is an extremely loving and affectionate person, who would do anything for me and treated me like a queen.
Now I am starting to question my decision, and am so tempted to tell him to come back.
And mainly it's because I don't want to be alone. I'm not an attractive woman, have a facial abnormality, and am overweight. And I know that finding someone else in my very small town will be impossible.
I know, it's pathetic, and I desperately want some unbiased opinions about what to do.
I could go on and on about the absolute hell my mind is going through.
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