New user and can't believe I am doing this....
I don't know what the acronyms mean so bear with me!
Split up from my husband of 32 years exactly 1 yr ago today. I had found out just before our daughters wedding that he was planning to leave after 'falling in love' with a younger married woman. Had been having this affair for 4 years. Kept is secret for 4 months while we tried to make it work. But he left anyway!
He is a narcissist.... he wanted to be adored all the time. Successful but fat, he stopped paying me any attention. Had had flings before but I had always taken him back and moved on. Daughter and 3 lovely sons. V v close family. I have lots of interest and commitments and work but enjoy life and hobbies etc. All my friends told me I would be better off without him, but I was completely bereft when we split. Told myself not to be bitter and make the most of my new life with the freedom to do what I wanted.
He is with the c... he had an affair with and I am still so sad.
We communicate by email and he has been fair in the financial settlement so not much to argue over.... but I am so rejected and humiliated. Even though in my rational head I know it was not a good marriage. Naturally I am a happy positive person, but this has completely change who I feel I am.
Met a lovely younger man (I am 52, he 47) and had a great time with him. Feeling sexy and special again. He also was sad after divorce, 3 young kids, different place in life, but we had fun together.
He ended it the other evening, can't cope with the different places we are in our lives. (I am about to become a grandma too..., son getting married in August)
I am so sad, even though I knew it wasn't long term, and agree we are at such different places.
Just not sure how to move on again now. So low, I know I have so much to be grateful for but I just don't want to be in this place.
Any help....
Well Labour’s “patriotism” didn’t last very long, did it? 🇬🇧