I agree with HildaW, that there's a difference between 'grumpy' (which can still be viewed with affection) and downright miserable, bullying and controlling. I have witnessed this at first hand (my father to my mother) and therefore have complete sympathy for you ladies who find yourselves in this situation: living with a man who 'sucks all the joy out of everything'. If it's not possible to leave, please do your utmost to carve a life for yourselves that has some happiness. Don't lose touch with friends - that is SO important. (Friends on here count!). Just remember the words from the beautiful Mary Oliver poem, 'The Summer Day' - "Tell me, what is it you plan to do
With your one wild and precious life?"
Arghh!! Moving house and conveyancing frustrations
Good Morning Monday 29th April 2024