Been with partner for a few years, we live together in my flat. The last 6 weeks or so, instead of going to work ( carpet fitter so mobile) he has been doing a few jobs, then he goes back to his old area when he was married and spends time there. This is in the same road as his ex lives. I know this because I can see where he goes on his map app on his PC - he does not know I look. I actually have no problem with him going back there, as it could be an old friend he sees, he doesn't even park outside his old house,but he swears he never goes back and has no friends, let alone any round there.
Now this is written down I can see this is madness! How on earth do I approach him and basically tell him I have been spying on him?? I don't even want him around because he has been lying to me about where he has been. But how do I tell him I know where he has been and that he is lying every day?
Be gentle with me. I know I should be stronger.
