Rather an odd title, I know, but not sure how to explain how I feel which is why I would value your views.
First husband and I married far too young though it seemed a good idea at the time and families were pleased. Within five years we had two children and I was happy in my role but husband didn't want to settle down to parenthood and domesticity. I was devastated at the time but nearly 50 years on I can see his point. So we parted ways. I made a life for me and my boys, retrained and carved out a good career and gave them, i hope, a good start. But I focussed on my career and my boys and stayed single for 30 years. Their father did make a financial contribution while they were growing up, but he had remarried and had another family and I know his new wife felt I was taking money that her children should have, so not a happy situation.
Anyway, now I am retired, sons launched into their own happy lives and I have a wonderful relationship with a very caring, and healthy, new husband. Life all lovely, lucky me.
First husband, though, has been in poor health for many years and is now suffering from advanced dementia and his wife is struggling to cope. My sons offer what help they can and rationally I know that all this is nothing to do with me. But I am feeling that somehow I have been too lucky and I feel guilty for that. While life felt tough at times on my own as a single parent with little money, now I seem to be sitting pretty. Why do I feel as if I haven't done enough to deserve such good fortune?
Any opinions might help!
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