after 44 yrs of married I've found out my husband has been having another affair( he's already had two much earlier on). I've confronted him (although he was given a chance to tell me, he didn't) he admitted it altho every question was answered with a half truth, half lie as he tried to trivialise it (only shagging). Then a 'few days' together turned out to be a whole week, then only one week that year turned out to be two separate weeks. After further questioning it turns out it has been going on for at least three years.Trouble is he didn't realise how this would eat away at me and I would scour every place I could for evidence - old receipts and his phone proved productive! I've turned into a scheming, and suspicious person, and I'm not at all proud of myself. But how do I move on? At my age I fear suddenly having to finance myself, although I think I'd be ok. But why should I leave the comfort of a home I've largely put together all these years? Can we continue married? My plan is to for him to tell our grown up children and suffer the fall out. THey have no idea. Through his liaison with another woman I have endured three years in a cold, loveless marriage as he pushed me away. Many tears were shed. I have wanted to protect my children but
know the only way forward is with honesty. I lost everything emotionally speaking, in those three years, now I want the grounds leveled so he loses the same. Then we are in an equal position to start rebuilding. My head is all over the place with thoughts and emotions but I think this has to be a starting point.
To go through chemo therapy or choose not to?
The majority of Israeli Jews do not want to occupy Gaza.
Have any of you got all electric cars? Pros and cons please.