It has only just come up on my radar (unbelievably) that people can be lonely for all kinds of reasons.
Maybe that was because as single parent, after I'd organised everything for my daughter, I was sometimes too drained to speak to anyone else. Now that she is off with her own friends and older, I need to do a rethink.
I also now suffer with social anxiety which is tough, because having used to enjoy groups, I find them such a challenge now. Even if I like the people I tend to withdraw and that gives the wrong message. I've had people invite me for coffee etc and not felt as if I could take it up because the place was too noisy etc. And you don't want to introduce yourself as someone with a disabilty, do you?
Oh dear, very different from how I used to be in my youth. Gregariious etc. Still, things change. Have you thought about getting an allotment with someone or sharing one?
Hadn't heard of the national women's register.
Have you got a local shop? Even going there and making myself chat to the ladies there is good practice I find.
Perhaps your other half is secretly envious of your going out ? No excuse for such a response, but perhaps understandable...as adults I know we need to take responsibility for making friends. I think you are doing well posting here.
Online Friendships aren't everything, but the gransnet meets sound great. I am in the Southwest.
If you are stuck at home on your own, there is always Silverline...24 hours free service
all best
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