Hi, my first post on Gransnet. I've been on my own for a few years - I tend to be a narc-magnet, maybe it's because I'm very caring and empathic. So it's taken a long time for me to trust myself and have a relationship with someone again after all I've been put through in the past.
Anyway, about a year ago I fell in love - I mean REALLY FELL big time!
So, to cut a very long story very short, it's been a fab year in many ways, BUT I'm now engaged to marry a man who gave up his job not long after moving in with me and doesn't earn any kind of wage that can contribute to the household bills; complains constantly about my AS who still lives at home (and does contribute). He very quickly stopped bedroom shenanigans stating that he's stressed and has lost his mojo. He's so lazy and self centred. I feel so stupid.
No fool like an old fool hey...
I feel like such a chump!
I just needed to vent on here really. I know what I have to do...
