Been married 27+years.
Had numerous times where we considered splitting up but never have. He's recently moved into the spare room due to a longstanding issue that just became in tolerable. He had terrible breath! It was bad all day, I stopped going on the car with him as it literally knocked me sick to travel with him. Someone on a flight actually commented on it, I was mortified.
His breath would keep me awake and whatever he ate during the day would be there as he never cleaned his teeth at bedtime, even tho I asked.
Now we are in separate rooms and this week I've noticed him cleaning his teeth at bedtime and using mouthwash too! I've asked why he's now doing it and basically just said because he was.
Over the months I've pushed him to get it sorted as his job means he's in close contact with people and I used to feel embarrassed for him. The smell could fill a room.
I'm just aggrieved that now we no longer share a room he's decided to clean his teeth at night! It makes me wonder why!
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