So, I'm a bit confused here... In my short time on Gransnet I've worked out that as grandparents we are to offer no opinions on any aspect of baby care, child rearing or schooling. "Keep your mouth shut, they're not your children, you've had your turn". (And that was from GPs).
We are not to visit unless invited, especially in the first month, and God forbid we break that rule. We are completely at the mercy of our adult children when it comes to seeing our grandchildren.
However, we are expected to be prepared to support them financially, act as unpaid childcare when it suits them, and finally, as if that wasn't enough, do chores when we do get to visit!!
How the Hell did it get this messed up? Unbelievable! Someone somewhere must be having a right laugh at our expense, and I think it might be our oh so entitled children. Sigh.
Back under my parapet....