I too have been talked at by people who make me feel dizzy! Dizzy with the stress of listening to someone drone on and on without pausing or trying to converse - just TALKING! We once had a plumber whose nickname was the name of a well-known headache tablet. After he spent about an hour wittering on and on about something, with very emphatic dialogue and hand gestures, during which he didn’t draw breath, I had to lie down in a darkened room as he gave me a massive headache. I tend to avoid such people if I can. We have a different plumber now. I also find constantly negative people very draining and I avoid them as well. By the way, I did the personality test and i’m a Mediator. Very empathetic apparently. But obviously not to verbose plumbers. Or to very negative people.
