David0205
Don’t support him more than the bare minimum, he has “Bummed” his way round the world for 5 yrs, it’s way past the time that he learned to do something useful and take responsibility. He will probably want to sponge off you, don’t let him!.
The German girlfriend probably was very nice, women have an inbuilt instinct to choose a man that can “look after them”, she decided that he was not a good prospect.
David0205,
Maybe I should of said that my son started working in restaurants when he was 14 and has worked his way up. He is now a sous chef working along side the head chef. Nothing casual about his work.
He had to work on the farm to get his second year visa.
He certainly isn’t a drifter, I actually think he has learnt a lot more about life skills travelling the world instead of working 16 hours per day in kitchens which he did for 3 years solid.
He has actually worked in Michelin star restaurants all over with many famous chefs.
I agree that there are many children that live off their parents for far too many years but my son isn’t one of them.