My MIL never accepted me or my children and disowened her son. When she passed away and this may sound horrid but I was so relived that I would never again have to put up with the way she treated us at family occasions. I am my husbands second wife and at a funeral she stood with my husbands daughter and ex wife and basically rubbed or noses in it. Glad she's gone
I've got another 'keen'... Ouch!