That s.x word

I thought everyone had one in their sock drawer ! Don’t they ?

Ditto BlueBelle " mother's little helper

I do enjoy a good cup of tea Esspee as long as there are no teabags involved!. You can always have tea as well, you know. Afterwards?!

Or during, if you’re good at multi-tasking and have decent balance.

I thought tmi must be another euphemism is didn’t know, in my sheltered existence!
Men are definitely needed, for opening bleach bottles, reaching things from a high shelf, carrying heavy stuff, loads of useful functions. But I see nothing wrong in a little help in the sensual sense, what harm can it do?

My bloke once said, 'We don't need sex aids' and I said, 'No, but what about sex TOYS?'

No one can object to fun, surely?

I do love the use of the adjective Victorian in this context. We are told that Victoria herself was awfully fond of matters bedroomy, and most families had many more children than today's average household. But then they didn't have tv to occupy their evenings.

I admire those putting their head above this particular parapet, but wonder at those who find the entire concept distasteful. Other people's bedrooms are their business, but admitting to solo joy is hardly blasphemous. And ignoring a thread that has the vexed three-letter word in the title might seem sensible if you are likely to be offended.

AmberSpyglass

Or during, if you’re good at multi-tasking and have decent balance.

Ha, ha, love it! Or a glass of chilled white?

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Blossoming ???

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I once left my battery operated, travel hair curler on the dining table ....my daughter popped in, saw it and turned her eyes away embarrassingly. I said nothing. It would have been even more embarrassing to explain what it was ?

No, Emily49 why should I? Mind your own business. I will comment if I want to. I don’t have to agree. ?

Awwww such an interesting thread is turning sour. ?

Look, each to their own eh guys?

They don’t snore

BlueBelle

They don’t snore

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Bluebelle

olddudders

I do love the use of the adjective Victorian in this context. We are told that Victoria herself was awfully fond of matters bedroomy, and most families had many more children than today's average household. But then they didn't have tv to occupy their evenings.

I admire those putting their head above this particular parapet, but wonder at those who find the entire concept distasteful. Other people's bedrooms are their business, but admitting to solo joy is hardly blasphemous. And ignoring a thread that has the vexed three-letter word in the title might seem sensible if you are likely to be offended.

Don’t worry ‘olddudders’ we are not offended. ?

Good on you! Life is too short to miss out totally. I'd like one also, but I'm like Esspee - too afraid of what the family would think if they found it when I died.

To those that are missing out in case their families find them after they’re dead.

We found something when mum died and I was delighted to think she was ‘still a woman’ right to the end!! It made me smile because she had had such a rotten life otherwise.

Put a label on the box saying ‘ I know what you’re thinking but I don’t care!!!’ ?

Why be worried what people will think when you’ve gone. You won’t be there! When you’re gone you’re gone! ?. Agree with ohmother. Go for it. It might make them smile actually ?

I wouldn’t dare buy one.... imagine if it arrived from Amazon buzzing away or indiscreetly labelled I live in a Flat with communal area postboxes !!

My Father in Law died at the age of 92. When we cleared out his house we found a prescription of Viagra dated a few days before he died. We just laughed and we’re pleased he was enjoying life right to the end.

Lucca

I wouldn’t dare buy one.... imagine if it arrived from Amazon buzzing away or indiscreetly labelled I live in a Flat with communal area postboxes !!

Erm... it doesn’t buzz until you put batteries in. ?. And they are always discreetly packaged.

One reason sex is rarely discussed on gransnet is that 'how to have orgasms ' does not concern older people so very much. Many partner relationships are companionate not sexual.