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Long marriages

(81 Posts)
varian Sat 10-Apr-21 16:41:08

The Queen and Prince Philip were married for 73 years.

I wonder how many marriages last that long.

Have any of you had a long marriage?

Kate1949 Sat 10-Apr-21 22:15:54

52 years this year. My husband deserves a medal.

BlueBelle Sat 10-Apr-21 22:18:37

My dad died one day before their 70th wedding anniversary my mum followed him 6 months later
Dad told me he never even had another girlfriend she was
16 he 18 when they met
I lasted 12 years the first time and 8 the second

Grannybags Sat 10-Apr-21 23:03:16

My Granny's advice for a long marriage "you have to swallow gimlets!"

Greyduster Sat 10-Apr-21 23:05:04

55 years for us in July. He deserves a medal as big as a frying pan!

Gwen45 Sat 10-Apr-21 23:45:52

I married at 18 and we had a good run for 45 years when he sadly passed away. It's been great hearing about so many other long marriages!

maydonoz Sun 11-Apr-21 07:41:14

We've been married coming up forty four years in July and together another three before.
It has passed very quickly but yet it seems like a lifetime, which it is!
Like most people it has been busy with work and family life, bringing up our three sons, and now helping with the grandchildren, the third on the way!

maydonoz Sun 11-Apr-21 07:44:57

I forgot to say "happy 45th anniversary" to Lullydully, hope you have a lovely day

Scentia Sun 11-Apr-21 07:47:32

Been together for 32 years and for 20 of those years we have worked together day in day out just us two. Works well for us, he is the best boss ever❤️

Gagagran Sun 11-Apr-21 08:12:00

56 year in July for us. I was 21 and DH was 22. Didn't feel young at the time but looking back we were, especially compared to the average age of marriages these days. We had such a lot to learn!

My parents were married for 70 years but for 6 months so we have some way to go to match them.

Spice101 Sun 11-Apr-21 08:18:42

50 years married next Saturday.

M0nica Sun 11-Apr-21 08:39:29

Spice101 Congratulations

B9exchange Sun 11-Apr-21 08:45:24

Spice I hope the weather holds for you and you can have a wonderful celebration with some friends in the garden, perhaps after the Duke's funeral service.

We have been married 48 years, hopefully by our 50th things will be back to normal!

Lovetopaint037 Sun 11-Apr-21 08:58:17

We have been married almost 61 years. Met when I was 16 and dh was 17.

Spice101 Sun 11-Apr-21 09:52:03

Thanks M0nica for your congratulations.
B9exchange, I live in Australia so our weather is on the decline but still should be ok for next week. At least we don’t have restrictions on who or where we can meet as we have very few covid cases.

Greyduster Sun 11-Apr-21 14:58:46

spice congratulations on your upcoming 50th! The six months running up to ours I was a nervous wreck, worrying about whether we would actually make it! How stupid can you get??

honeyrose Sun 11-Apr-21 15:11:27

45 years married in 2 weeks time and together for 48 years. Can’t believe where the years have gone.

threexnanny Sun 11-Apr-21 16:01:13

Together 45 years and married for nearly 43.

Like Terry Wogan used to say about his wife and their long marriage - I don't like to throw anything away!

4xGranny Sun 11-Apr-21 16:36:30

Together 46 years, married for 45. Married 11 months after we met.

varian Sun 11-Apr-21 18:04:15

Congratulations Spice and Greyduster 50 years married is quite special.

glammanana Sun 11-Apr-21 18:13:18

45 years before sadly losing him suddenly 16mths ago I still can't believe he has gone from me he was my rock.

Puzzler61 Sun 11-Apr-21 19:34:48

So sorry glammanana. I can only imagine how life doesn’t feel the same again. ?

jeanie99 Sun 11-Apr-21 23:12:53

Married 51 years, no idea where the years have gone.

BigBertha1 Mon 12-Apr-21 07:07:34

42 years for us both had early failed marriages first.

varian Mon 12-Apr-21 18:36:22

So far as far as I can see we don't have any GNetters who have been married longer that the Queen.

A bit disappointing

We (OH and me ) have been together for 61 years and married for 55 years, so early days yet,

I do hope that we last as long as the Royal couple.

LadyGracie Mon 12-Apr-21 20:02:27

52 years together in June, 51 years married next December. I wish I could go back and do it all again.