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That’s fabulous news, DeeDee!

Bea65, i think being homeless, with aggravating factors, would bump anyone up the ladder, or rather the bidding points.

DeeDee, this has cheered me up too, and i've never met you !
you must be flying like a kite.
don't let your ex know your new address. maybe someone could be an intermediary for post etc.
as soon as you sign tenancy, get mail re-directed.
don't ever communicate directly with ex.
now go outside and do a little jig in the street.

So pleased you got your bungalow deedee6969 hope you have lots of fun furnishing it.

Fantastic news deedee6969!
You'll have so much fun furnishing and setting up your new bungalow ☺️
Wonderful support from your son and daughter as well ?

So happy for you Deedee, hope you get into your new home quickly. Look on gumtree "free"" and you may get some stuff. Happy days, much love x

Gosh you have a bungalow offered to you in ?less than amonth?? Which area do you live...i need to move there.. but Congrats to you !

Congratulations! So happy for you. Now, lots of exciting charity shop rooting ahead, lots of lovely furniture in ours, dinner services, pots, pans, curtains etc. Delighted for you, and wish you well. Keep us updated please

Oh DeeDee how wonderful! I too left an abusive marriage many years ago and walked away with nothing. My son was very young and there was no internet or Facebook market place in those days so we struggled to furnish our new home. But we both look back on those days and our ‘happy house’ so fondly. We didn’t even have plates, used round lids off margarine tubs. Please keep us updated, we’re all proud of and excited for you. You will have little wobbles but we’ll all talk you through them.

I started to read the thread before you got the bungalow, and when I read that you had I was SO EXCITED AND HAPPY FOR YOU!

I felt a bit fed up today, but this news has put a massive smile on my face, so thank you

Good news. Wishing you all the best for a happy future.?

I am so pleased for you Deedee. I've been following your story. You deserve the happiness and peace of mind you will now have. Well done to you.

I am so pleased for you . You are one brave lady ! Good luck for the future ?

You are very brave and deserve happiness and peace of mind. So good to hear your children are backing you. You will get there.x

Just read about the fact you’ve e been accepted for the bungalow I’m so pleased for you. Good luck with everything.

Thank you so much everyone I really appreciate it. He's tried to contact me but I've ignored his calls. He's very good at playing the victim but I'm having non of it. My kids (35 and 36 lol) aren't telling him anything so he's not aware what's happening. They obviously see him and offer their support to both because he is still their dad but they also know the issues I've had and are 100% behind me. Xx

I think you’ve been very brave and I applaud you. Sometimes it’s easier to stay through fear of change. Think yourself forward when you’ve moved in and you have peace of mind and a life of your own. Don’t look back you’ve taken the first step I wish you well. I really do.

Hurray! Hope you get your bungalow soon and can really start your new life.

Hurrah some good news. Good luck with your future. Any nonsense from ex nip it in the bud - don't let him snake back in sometimes when they see you mean business they say they have changed.
Let the good times roll. Every minute of your future counts. Everything crossed for you deedee.

Thank you ??

Fantastic news, I’m sure you will make it your own very soon and be able to close your front door with relief and a beaming smile on your face. Take care x

How exciting

Have a look on freecycle and facebook marketplace as loads of free stuff comes up or see if you can get some help of the furniture bank? Ours is really good and very supportive in other ways.

Here is to your new life

DeeDee I'm delighted for you ??

UPDATE....I'VE ONLY GONE AND GOT IT!!!!!
I've had a call this morning to let me know the bungalow is mine if I want it. Excited is an understatement. I don't care that I am starting from scratch because it will be all mine. Charity shops here I come ? And I know my family will help me even if it's just with support. I haven't got a date yet because they haven't had the keys back yet. She did laugh when I said I've been and peeped through the windows...twice ?. I do hope this gives someone hope that if I can do it so can they. You are stronger than you think. I know I am. Trust in yourself and your family/support group. Be extremely honest when you apply for housing/benefits because they really are there to help if you ask. I can't wait to sleep in a bed lol. But I really appreciate my family right now. I couldn't have done this without them and would probanly just have put up and shut up and spent the rest of my life in misery. Anyway, enough waffle from me. Sooòooooo excited ???

Whatdayisit, thank you and yes peace is a wonderful thing x

Susysue having peace of mind at the end of every day and being able to be yourself in your own home is not being a failure. Good luck and keep going. Take care.

Well done deedee. I too am in your situation and also felt a failure but like others have said on here, we are not. We have finally taken back control of our lives and though it is very hard, we will both get through it. Xx