Oh trouty this is one of the saddest posts I have ever read.
I think the relationship with your DH is the most important. I would have to tell him I read the messages. You need to talk to him. Maybe he feels insecure with your DDs and that is why he is siding with them against you.
We all have complicated relationships with our children at times.
The one with your DH is what is important here. He has no right to say such things to your AC.
I hope you can work it out.
Please let us know how you are.
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