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Advice on being content in my 70s

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JPB123 Tue 19-Oct-21 14:01:12

Having lived alone for 12 years,due to divorce I have become
anxious,panicky and lonely.I am 75 and in good health.I love the Summer and there are lots of activities for me to do,but now I feel bereft.I pace around my house and flit from one thing to another.Yes ,I have been to GP,had talking therapy,which was hopeless,and I joined WI,U3a,and still can’t find my niche.This is a result of Covid pandemic,I’m sure.

Germanshepherdsmum Fri 22-Oct-21 12:06:48

That’s wonderful news, thank you so much for telling us. You sound brighter already! Well done, it can be very difficult to motivate yourself to make changes I know! Hope you stay on GN. ?

Chardy Sat 23-Oct-21 12:29:11

JPB123

I would like to thank everyone for their great ideas and advice,empathy and support.I do not feel as alone now. What a wonderful bunch of friends we are!
Some of the suggestions I have done already…I researched my family tree,which was fascinating. I have taken up crown green bowling, that’s great fun, and I have applied to be a helper at the local Red Cross charity shop.My dbs check has been done so I can go back into my local primary school to help there (COVID permitting!) .I am a retired teacher and went into school to help before lockdown. I will keep reading your messages ,refer to them ,and take your advice when I can.Thank you all…Oh,my daughter has a new puppy ,so I can walk him during the day. I am ticking off the list of activities and keeping up with reading and phoning friends and family who are some distance away.

Excellent news