Manfriend

Too many red flags, one would be enough for me.

Nooooooooo

Women want a relationship which makes them happy.

Most men want to have sex, if that’s ok then they want to move in and have someone to wait on them.

Ditch him.

Just stop answering the phone when he rings.

Why have you put up with him just get rid. He sounds a pain in the rear it's better to be on your own surely.

Nooo! ?

Get rid of him. Pronto.

You really need advice on this!!!

He really doesn't sound like a 'keeper' to me

Why are you even asking? Get rid of him soon or he’ll simply inveigle his way into your life. He sounds a nightmare.

Chewbacca

3 questions:
Is he kind and respectful to you?
Does he make you feel good about yourself?
Do you love him and feel loved in return?

If the answer to any of those questions is no; kick him to the kerb and move on.

talks endlessly about old girlfriends is not respectful or kind.

Kick him to touch (so to speak).

3 questions:
Is he kind and respectful to you?
Does he make you feel good about yourself?
Do you love him and feel loved in return?

If the answer to any of those questions is no; kick him to the kerb and move on.

Cross post!!

When you say ‘pushing for a relationship’ is that code for ‘he’s hoping to get his end away’?

It sounds to me as if he turns to you when nothing better is on.

By 'pushing for relationship' do you mean he wants to make it physical?

I'd make sure he actually enjoyed my company before taking that step, at this older stage of life.

Do you really want the endless agro of someone like that in your life?

Run for the hills!

Tell him to push off?

Sounds like one to avoid! If you don’t want to dump him straight off, maybe a gradual cooling?

Send him over the horizon .......