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Holiday without husband ?

(27 Posts)
minesaprosecco Thu 03-Nov-22 20:58:48

Go on holiday, and don't feel guilty!

Notjustaprettyface Thu 03-Nov-22 20:53:02

My husband has considerable mobility issues and there is no guarantee that these will improve as he is 81 and also quite negative about his future prospects
As a result , in the last 3 years and with the added problem of covid , we haven’t had a holiday to speak of and even weekends / days out can be quite tricky
I am quite a lot younger than him and I miss going on holiday etc but I don’t know whether I should just go on my own and possibly feel guilty about leaving him or stay with him, do very little and feel resentful
Which of these 2 evils would you go for ?
I hope some of you will be able to offer some advice as it is really bothering me now
Thank you