Fleurpepper
A friend was married to a man who chose to do all the cooking- and it suited them both. Then he became ill and was not able to do it- so she had to. For weeks he sat there tell her 'do it like this, no, not like that, etc'. As he was ill, she took deep breaths and got on with it. One day, she blew her top and said 'if I cook, I cook, I don't want or need your advice. And if you don't like it, your problem not mine'.
She waited far too long to say it imho, but ...
Again many unkind comments above. In a relationship, why should anyone just say 'don't like it' and refuse to share chores. Discuss it, and find a compromise of sorts. What will she do that you don't like doing, that will compensate.
It takes two to tango, and just because you like cooking, and she doesn't, does NOT mean it is automatically all up to you, day in, day out.
Like I've said, she will gladly tell anyone she's a great cook and how this is "her" kitchen yet in still the only spices she chooses to use are salt, pepper, or simple Lawry's seasoning on everything.
My wife made a dish for her job's pot luck a few years back. It was some sort of corn casserole. I come in from work and walked in on her with the whole kernel corn in the bowl of my Kitchenaid mixer with the whisk attachment installed. When I asked her what she was doing she said she had to puree it and the directions called for her to use a blender or food processor but she just wanted to use the mixer. When I showed her on the counter less than 2 feet away that we had both a food processor and a mixer she didn't even know there were there.
Yes, I like to cook. I love tastes, flavors, etc. But that doesn't mean I want to be the only cook in the house.
The other Sunday she did fry pork chops and when she brought my plate it was full of grease. Why? Because she took the pork chops straight out of the deep fryer and put it right on my plate. She didn't allow then to rest on a paper towel to drain. So now everything else on the plate was saturated in grease. Along with that she pulled a frozen bag of peas out of the freezer and put them in a pot with no water. When she cooked them they were hard and rubbery. She didn't think to put any water in them.
This is what I have to deal with. Again, if you ask her if she's a good cook she will tell you yes. That's like saying you're a great driver but always getting into wrecks.