I've been looking for a partner for years but now want to give up. My last attempt.... I met a man on online dating. He seemed perfect personality wise but very overweight. The weight is becoming an issue as he wants me to do the food for him to lose weight! I think he needs to do this himself as I feel if he fails it becomes my fault and we dont even live together. Anyway that problem aside.... we recently got to the bedroom bit, unfortunately it turns out he is rather less endowed than I hoped. Now I am faced with a lovely personality but physically I am not attracted to him at all. How on earth am I to get out of this without hurting him. I feel like I'm kicking a puppy. Please help.
