Leaving marriage after 50

Jenho how are you? Did you get the help you needed from Women's Aid? I know you posted in November but I am sure we would all like to know you are in a safe place.

Anyway, sending love and strength if you are reading.

Agree with Flappergirl - I was thinking of you Jenho- hope you are in a safe place.

How are you?

I have left my marriage a year ago.
I am nearly 67

I have been living with my daughter on her sofa for the past year as no one will rent to me as I’m retired..
I am waiting for social housing but apparently I’m not homeless as I have a sofa to sleep on .
It’s hard , I suffer with depression from time to time but it’s still better that living with a narcissistic alcoholic bully of a husband who made my life a living hell..
I don’t regret my decision

@scarlettsnan I hope you quickly find the new home you deserve for finding the strength to leave. Many people would stay, but staying in stressful situations isn't good for your health as you know. Although leaving takes courage and strentgh

Scarlettsnan I do hope something comes up soon.
Have you looked to see if you have local almshouses?
Other idea might be to see if the local parish has any church-owned properties. A friend of mine lived in a very nice church-owned flat until she moved area.

We have some lovely Alms houses in my town that people don't necessarily put their name down for as they are managed separately to the council waiting list, through a local charity.

Just a thought.

I divorced my abusive first husband after a terrible struggle I know how difficult it can be. You are strong you will survive listen to the advice you are given and never refuse help.

Look after yourself and watch your back soon the bad times will be behind you. I wish you the very best keep safe. When you can let us know how you get on.💐

You should be a priority for social housing now you are living in a refuge.

Jenho you will get through this difficult and discombobulating period and one day you will find your wings and fly free.
Take it a day at a time.
You can do this! Well done you.
One step at a time. 💐