How would you deal with this?

Do you like being part of this group, with its nosey clique? It doesn’t sound very enjoyable. Do you actually get something positive out of it or do you just dread what intrusive questions will be asked next time? I would ponder that very seriously.

Aren't there other people in the group whom you would like to get to know? Surely they aren't all in the one big clique. See if you can walk beside someone else and have a sensible conversation, or else walk in companionable silence which would have been my choice.

I'm sad and worried because 37 yr old my son doesn't know how to handle his anger issues with his children and wife. I blame myself for this because of how I wasnt able to deal him on his struggles as a child. He is my second child of 3 and my relationship with their father was not so good. And I don't know how to help him now more than ever. I just want to fix things so he can be a happy and loving dad to his kids.

Adda, you need to start a new thread for your problem. Go to Forums, select a topic and click on Start new thread.

I have had a terrible row with my eldest grandson (14) whilst I was childminding him and his 2 brothers. He's very disrespectful of me and very aggressive towards the other 2. I walked out and told my daughter I'd had enough. I feel bad but this boy is not good for my mental health. My daughter says he's just a child but I'm really fed up with him.