I'd really welcome some views on a situation I've found myself in.
I'm in an 'interest' group on Facebook and have been for a number of years, around 3 years ago, someone responded to a comment I'd made and as it turned out, he was a friend from school. We'd had a very mild 'childhood' romance i.e danced at the school disco, held hands but nothing more (we were approx' 14).
It fizzled out very quickly and as my family then moved, I never saw or heard from him again.
Over the past couple of years, I had a few initial how's life, discussing families etc and then apart from 2/3 messages a year, usually around Xmas / New Year pretty much hear nothing at all.
A few weeks ago however I had a message which was followed by a call...he explained that both he and his partner would be passing through my area in a month or so and if I was free and available, it would be really nice to have a meal together - this included his wife.
I said depending on what was happening that might be nice....
About a week later I received the most awful call from his wife basically accusing me of chasing her husband etc etc, she was extremely angry and quite abusive, she wouldn't allow me to speak at all and I just ended up putting the phone down.
I then had a number of pretty dreadful text messages - I've kept them but blocked both of them, I've also closed down Facebook etc
There was never any hint of any ulterior motive in his interactions with me and I'm astonished at her reaction, in the brief call he'd intimated it was his wife's idea to meet (which I totally understand)...quite hurt too as in all honesty I'd never have agreed to meet him without his wife being there.
Now I keep wondering if I did something wrong, did I miss something etc and it's actually knocked me for six.
I feel so stupid and don't know why.
