Need suggestion

Ditto

Personality problem? Steer well away!

Just say " That will be nice. Let me know when and where once you have arranged it". Ball in her court.

Gettingadjusted1234
What should I tell her? Maybe say, “call me only when you have a specific day and place to meet!”???!!

I would do just that

It's not clear why you want to meet.. but it sounds as though you are being played..

I would block her, I wouldn’t waste your time on someone who wants to play games.

Fxxxx. Off i would say

She obviously plans her diary well in advance so you could ask her to give you some suggested dates. You did say you enjoyed meeting up with her.

I tend to prefer more predictability and openness in friendships and other relationships than you’re getting here. I wouldn’t waste my headspace trying to work out what’s up with her because you’ll probably never know. As has been suggested in previous replies, draw a line on this.

You say you have given up on getting to know her better, so quite frankly, I don't understand the problem.

Either ignore her texts or tell her you don't have time (are not interested in continuing the acquaintanceship)-

Churchview

She sounds exhausting and as though this would never be an easy pleasure for you. Next time she texts saying, 'We must meet again for lunch' I'd reply 'Yes that would be lovely.' Don't suggest a date, don't expect her to and hopefully it will all fizzle out.

Good advice here.

She sounds exhausting and as though this would never be an easy pleasure for you. Next time she texts saying, 'We must meet again for lunch' I'd reply 'Yes that would be lovely.' Don't suggest a date, don't expect her to and hopefully it will all fizzle out.

I can't be doing with people messing me about. I would either organise something myself (sounds as if you're not too keen) or just ignore her messages until she comes up with something constructive.

Years ago I would get invited out for lunch by some people who then decided they weren't hungry and didn't order any food. I didn't get it but needless to say I no longer meet them at all, never mind for lunch!

I agree with your final sentence. Leave it with her to contact you when she has firm details.

I personally would draw a line under that one, as I just can’t be doing games. So, I would not respond at all.

Strange post are you male or female, in school or out ?