Does anyone have any experience or knowledge of pension sharing? Married for over 40 years to a heavy drinker and I can’t take any more. Both retired. STBX has large private pension which if split would provide sufficient income for us both. I understand it's a long legal process to split the pension. I need to think about the process. Things could get very difficult for me. I think the sooner we start the legal process of splitting the pension the better. But I'm not sure when to start the divorce process. For example if divorce was finalised first before pension sorted out could I be vulnerable? We also have a house to sell, mortgage free. Basically I think I would have enough for a small flat with half our current income. A different life but safer and happier? Any advice much appreciated.
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