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annoying neighbour

(59 Posts)
notgran Thu 25-Sept-25 06:47:29

If it was me I would be able to use my Super Power." I'm sorry I can't hear what you are saying, I am deaf." Then I would just continue and ignore him. It is a great excuse and my actual level of deafness varies by how much I want to engage with folk.

Homestead62 Thu 25-Sept-25 00:43:03

Grey rock is your friend here. No reaction at all, keep doing what your doing and if he says anything go ' oh sorry, I'm so busy wasn't really listening'. He will get bored and move on if he gets no reaction.

V3ra Thu 25-Sept-25 00:12:03

Ooh I'd like to flash him a big smile and say, "Thank you for your help, I'll certainly bear it in mind."
Send him home happy, then carry on as you were 😁

denbylover Wed 24-Sept-25 23:43:32

Why people like this think you need their opinion always amazes me.

Romola Wed 24-Sept-25 23:12:15

Can you say something like, "This is the way I've been advised to do it. When I want your advice, I will ask for it."

pably15 Wed 24-Sept-25 23:05:08

I hate folk like that,,,,they give their opinion whether you want it or not, or they say....now, what you should have done is..bla bla...

busybee6969 Wed 24-Sept-25 22:55:32

he is married i feel sorry for his wife his view on every subject is the right one in his eyes,

Grammaretto Wed 24-Sept-25 22:14:58

Ask him if he's very lonely and suggest a men's club.

Tell him straight that you don't want his advice. It's your garden and luckily there are no laws to stop you making it how you like.

busybee6969 Wed 24-Sept-25 21:27:37

im end house open plan side garden, opposite side on to me is an annoying male neighbour, he knows it all, i have been weeding my small front bit near a metal fence put plastic down laying slate stone, he comes over im doing it wrong i will need strong spray glue to stop the slate pieces blowing about, i thought it was april fools day, today he comes over again im doing bigger bit at the side, im doing that wrong , im ready for him tomorrow i will say keep your views on my garden to him self i have had enough, fed up with views on everything, sorry for moaning